June 12, 2014
Since
I lost my journal, it’s been really hard for me to stay caught up with my
entries. I guess that proves how
easy it is to loose a good habit. A couple of days ago we had a zone training
meeting where we focused on how to teach people rather than merely teaching
lessons. Then we had the
opportunity to put that into practice while teaching a lesson on the plan of
salvation. That lesson turned into
a 2 hours lesson that was really difficult. The guy was a spiritist and couldn’t understand the concept
of resurrection.
Yesterday
was a great day because we got to teach this 11 year old kid who really wants
to learn. His uncle is in the
young men’s presidency and he has a cousin serving a mission, but his Mom is
not very supportive. She did agree
to go to church with her son if he liked it (which he did!)
I
went on splits with one of the zone leaders, Elder Gali. He gave me feedback
afterwards and basically gave me a little compliment and then pretty much
chewed me out the rest of my teaching.
In the beginning of my mission, I would have been really irritated by
this, but I have learned to just accept the advice and move on. I worry a little bit about how Levi
will handle this type of situation, because it is really hard to not want to fight
with guys like this. I also got
chewed out because my apartment was messy. We have been waiting to clean it when we move which has been
delayed for the past two weeks.
Unfortunately, the rationalization meant that the tiny apartment got
pretty dirty. When Elder Gali saw
the mess, he basically threw a hissy fit and chewed me out even more. We started cleaning and I felt super
ashamed of myself that I had let the house get so dirty. I felt truly sorry. Once everything was clean, I felt a
weight being lifted and was happy again. So our house is super clean right now
and we will have to do it again when we get the final word that we can
move. Repentance is a good thing.
Today
is the opening game of the World cup and we didn’t even leave our house because
of the concern about safety during all of the parties and rioting. There were more fireworks today than
there were on New Years! It’s
crazy how CRAZY people are about soccer.
Seriously, the only time that Brazilians are patriotic is when there is
soccer involved.
June 13, 2014
So
today was a downer. Well, it had a
good share of its ups and downs.
Fortunately we planed the day really well so that we still had a couple
of people to teach after most of our plans fell through. We had some really great lessons with
E. and he is helping us work with a family that is trying to overcome some
serious problems. That family is
challenging for us.
In
another lesson we learned how challenging it is trying to reactivate a sister
who never really was active in the first place. She doesn’t have, nor probably ever did have, a testimony
about anything. Her little 8 year
old daughter really wanted to be baptized this week but the mom said no and
doesn’t want to bring her daughter to church anymore. It was really heartbreaking for me to hear this little girl’s
sincere testimony and desire be silenced by her mother.
June 14, 2014
I
got to do my first interview of the transfer. It is always fun to interview
people because they’re the best investigators who actually have the desire to
change and be baptized. Anyways,
we had a bunch of investigators decide that they didn’t want to be taught
anymore…worst part of being a missionary.
June 15, 2014
Our
little 11 year old superstar took his whole family to church today and really
liked it (though he was not super crazy about Primary) He told us afterwards
that it was just a bunch of little kids.
Thankfully, he liked the rest of church and said that he will come back. We had another investigator and his
family come to church today too.
He is struggling with the word of wisdom but has gone two days without
smoking. The coolest thing happened today, Ev. our recent convert, was called
to be the ward mission leader. He
was feeling insecure, but we talked with him and he seems super excited about
it. It’s going to be really nice
because he literally is our next
door neighbor.
June 16, 2014
We
ate breakfast with the Bishop, exercised with his son Bruno, did our studies
and emailed, ate lunch with the Bishop, learned a little bit of guitar in his
house, went to the chapel and watched Frozen in English. (I had the revelation that all Disney
princesses are home schooled which explains a lot.) We taught a few lessons in
the afternoon and then we returned to the Bishop’s house for dinner. I think that the likes us : )
One
of our families is struggling to overcome addictions which is really hard for
me to know how to handle. I am
praying really hard to know what to do.
June 17, 2014
Yet
another day stuck in the house during a Brazil game. It is Brazil vs. Mexico. I am taking advantage of the extra time to write and
rest. I think that I will
write a few letters! Our house is still really clean and we
are still waiting to move.
June 18, 2014
I
gave the training in the district meeting this week on The Book of Mormon. I think that it went pretty well. I tried to focus on how we could help
other people become “hungry” to read the book. To illustrate this, I had everyone describe their favorite
food in such a way that you would make your companion hunger for the food. It
turned out well and everyone thought I was creative, except it wasn’t my
idea. Elder Da Hora gave me the
same training in Bom Jardim! Not
very creative, hugh?
We
had a lesson with one of our familys about the Law of Chastity, during our
lesson with them, the mailman interrupted the lesson and he was a member for 20
years. He saw us teaching so he
bore his testimony of our message and then left. It was super weird, but actually helped us a lot.
I
saw a super old car that I have never seen before, a 73 Puma GTF. It is unusual to see little old
sportscars here.
June 19, 2014
Man,
having appointments fall through must be some requirement to being a
missionary. But we invited a bunch
of people to a stake party tomorrow night, arranged rides for our
investigators, etc. Sadly, we can’t
go. Well, we can go, but President
Souza doesn’t want us to go because he doesn’t want it turning into a party for
the missionaries. He really doesn’t want any fun for the missionaries. Actually, I think that he doesn’t trust
the missionaries because this mission was a MESS when he got here and he doesn’t
want to let things get out of hand. It is his very last week as President, and
then we get a new president. I
have no idea what is going to change, but everyone says that there are Huge
changes with a new president.
June 20, 2014
Ev.,
our new ward mission leader, loved the party! Sadly, we didn’t go, but it was worth it. The party was some
kind of cultural dance festival or something like that. Every one thought that
it was hilarious because there was one dance that everyone does in couples, but
Ev. managed to do it with his two daughters! Also, our investigator went and liked the activity and his kids
had fun too.
Once
again, almost all of our appointments fell through, but we kept on pushing on
and because we sacrificed our night of “fun”, we managed to find a super cool
family. Some time ago we contacted
this 15 year old skater/surfer kid who turns out to be an atheist (which really
means that he is just trying to be different.) anyways we went to his house and talked with his older
brother for a long time. His
brother is really interested in teaching him some more and wants to help his
younger brother listen to our message.
June 21, 2014
Well
today was probably the worst day of my mission other than the day that I found
out that my Dad has cancer. All of
our appointments fell through as usual and then we had to drop teaching our
best family that we were preparing for baptism because of some very serious
problems. It’s on a scale that us
missionaries can’t deal with and it was really sad for everyone. It made Elder L. and I really think. A
lot. But, what can you do? Just keep going.
June 22, 2014
So
we passed by the houses of 6 different investigators to remind them about
church and not a single one went.
We had luck when one showed up that we did not remind, but then he kept
sneaking out during the services to take a smoke. Funny thing is that he did
not want to bring his cigarettes into the Lord’s house so he hid them outside.
I went out and talked with him while he was sitting on the sidewalk in between
meetings. I asked him why he
smokes and he told me that he “wants” to.
It is true of the people in my mission that they don’t do anything that
they don’t want to do either good or bad. I talked to this investigator about
Jesus Christ and how he had to suffer for our sins even though he really didn’t
want to. On the contrary, he begged
His Father that the bitter cup might be taken away, but in the end he did the
Father’s will and drank the bitter cup so that we might all be forgiven through
the power of the atonement. This
illustrated the importance of obedience and putting aside our selfish
desires. I asked my investigator
if he understood how important it is that we obey God’s commandments. He said
he understood, but then right after taking the sacrament he snuck out again to
take another smoke. That pretty
much sums up how effective my week was.
June 23, 2014
I
hope that you got the pictures of our new house that we FINALLY moved
into. We have a little elbow room
now and it is much nicer that the tiny cramped place we were in. (Don’t worry, I left it very clean.), There
is another game for Brasil tonight, soooo I'm going to sleep. Big time. I'm
really tired, and I think that it'll be nice to take a day off and relax. Also
it's p-day, so we can afford to take time to relax! I just want you guys to
know that you might not even recognize me by the time that I finish my mission
because it's only been a year, but I'm already way different. I've learned a
ton, and I can't even begin to imagine what the next year of my mission is
going to bring me. Can you believe that I'm already at the year mark? Is it
taking forever for you guys, or is it passing quickly? It's a combination of
the two for me.
These apartments all look alike to me! |